Gratitude is one of those things we’re socialized to believe is always positive, but there’s a lot more nuance to it.
Sometimes saying thank you can go a long way, other times we use gratitude as an excuse to not ask.
What are the advantages of showing gratitude?
Where can gratitude take a turn for the negative?
In this episode, I talk about how to make sure your ‘thank you’ is working for you and not against you at the negotiating table.
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To have a job that truly serves us and allows us to thrive at the highest level, certain boundaries and conditions need to be present.
We may be acutely aware of what these things are for ourselves, but our employers can’t read our minds.
We have to express our unique needs and spell them out so we can get the support we need to thrive in our jobs.
How do we get key decision-makers to understand the day-to-day challenges we have in our jobs and the improvements we need?
In this episode, I talk about how to express what you require to be your best (and happiest) at work.
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Big wins, leaps, and accomplishments are often associated with endorphin-rich highs and tons of elation, but what happens when the joy is short-lived, and we’re left feeling a little underwhelmed about the whole thing?
Sometimes the after-effect of a win is more anticlimactic than we thought it would be, and that’s totally okay.
Victory hangovers are a natural part of growing as a person, we won’t always have the warm and fuzzies when we achieve something great.
How do we deal with all the feelings that come with a win?
In this episode, we talk about why we feel low after doing something really great.
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When we show up to a negotiation (or any conversation for that matter) it’s not just the words we say that make the ask, our body language does some speaking of its own too.
If we’re making a big, bold ask, but our body language screams small - our words won’t pack as much of a punch, making it very confusing for the person on the other end.
How do we create more alignment between our words and our body language? How do we make sure our confidence is equally heard and felt?
In this episode, I share a golden nugget from Kasia Urbaniak’s Unbound: A Woman's Guide to Power and how to fine-tune our non-verbal communication skills.
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Boundaries are associated with protecting ourselves from negativity, and even great things can become toxic without boundaries.
Many of us love our jobs, but because we have so much on our plates, we’re always one stressful moment away from completely falling apart.
In healthcare, it feels like we’re caught between accepting burnout as part of the job and quitting entirely.
So is there a happier medium?
How do we overcome this internal tug-of-war between what’s healthy for us and what burns us out?
In this episode, I’m thrilled to be joined by the founder/CEO of Brave Enough and author of “Brave Boundaries: Strategies to Say No, Stand Strong and Take Control of Your Time” Dr. Sasha Shillcutt.
She shares how to set boundaries so we stop over-functioning and stretching ourselves too thin.
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All-or-nothing, dichotomous thinking is a little evolutionary trait that all human beings have.
Though it can be helpful in many scenarios, it can be limiting at the negotiation table.
When it feels like win or lose are the only options available to us, it makes us blind to the fact that there could be a third, fourth, or even fifth possibility worth exploring.
How can we break ourselves free of constrictive thinking, look at our situation differently, and come up with other possibilities?
In this episode, I’m talking about how to break out of the trap of all-or-nothing thinking and take the blinders off.
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In a negotiation, not all yeses are created equal. Sometimes ‘yes’ is said to make you stop asking, and it’s not really backed by action or execution.
How do we tell the difference so we don’t end up feeling stuck in limbo or getting strung along?
Before we pat ourselves on the back and break out the champagne, it’s critical that we make sure what we’re excited about is a solid win and not an empty promise.
What structures can we put in place to make sure we get what we negotiated for?
In this episode, I’m going to share what we have to do before we get excited about a great negotiation.
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One of life’s biggest truths is that we have very little control over other people and how they show up and act.
Even in a negotiation, we can have all our ducks in a row and the best intentions, but we still can’t control how people respond to us advocating for ourselves.
The real challenge is accepting this and making sure we don’t let that mean anything about who we really are.
How do we make sure other people’s responses don’t take away our power?
In this episode, I offer two simple responses that save us from the frustration and disappointment of us not being in control of other people.
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For many doctors, a negotiation isn’t as simple as a one-person to one-organization scenario - collective negotiations are pretty common.
There are many ways things can get a little dicey when multiple parties with different priorities, goals, and needs are involved.
Whether you’re negotiating in a space with multiple stakeholders or negotiating on behalf of a group, there are things we need to be mindful of to make it beneficial for everyone.
In this episode, I’ll share 3 key areas we need to pay attention to, and how we can negotiate as effectively and efficiently as possible.
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Negotiation and self-care routinely go hand-in-hand.
Feeling like our best selves can make it easier to focus our attention on our negotiations and negotiating a job that works for us helps us to have the time and energy to truly focus on ourselves.
However, the diet programs we see everywhere disconnect us from our bodies, force us to eat food that doesn’t taste good, and ultimately lead us right back to where we started.
Can we eat in a way that supports our bodies, creates positivity around food, and gives us the life results we want without white-knuckling through another problematic diet?
Can we eat in a way that supports our bodies, creates positivity around food, and gives us the life results we want without white-knuckling through another problematic diet?
So how do we shift to a more peaceful existence with food?
In this episode, I’m joined by physician and master certified life coach, CEO at Weight Loss for Busy Physicians, Dr. Katrina Ubell.
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